Gail Lorzing, United States I bought my dress online for my up coming wedding
Comfort is paramount, so if you dont normally wear thongs for example, your wedding day is not the time to experiment, she says
A graceful sweep train and a daring slit add a touch of allure, making this gown perfect for formal dresses that command attention
Remember that at its most basic, black tie optional means you can choose from black tie wear or formal dress codes, but lean toward the most formal look that you can
Softer silver and pewter work well with fair to medium complexions without washing out features
Advice from your tester Andrea Bossi, style contributor: My career spans across tech, law, and media, so I understand the wide swath of office cultures and what this demands from your wardrobe